Recently, someone just told me that a divorced woman, let’s call her K for privacy issues, has been hunting herself for a rich man in town. Before you think K looking for someone to share her life with and start anew after a previous marriage has gone to shambles, what if I say that rumour has it that the woman happens to be a mother of two grown kids who is dating and having an affair with someone’s husband and terribly willing to act like a street hooker just to get what she wants. If you are reading on right now, here is something more juicy to note: K is in her mid to late forties who is hoping to bag herself a married but rich man so that she can maintain her ‘lavish’ lifestyle surrounded by designer goods, expensive killer heels, make-up and her appointments at fancy-schmancy places that make her feel and look A-list to those she deem as average or ugly (Info: before her divorce, she was an arrogant, back-stabbing woman and a braggart too (always comparing her kids against people’s kids and comparing herself with other women as if she is comparing apples with oranges) but after the divorce, she appeared more like a ‘eating humble pie’ woman but it is only a matter of time if she goes back to being her mean self again)
Before you start saying what she is doing is considered uncool, well, she is definitely doing something very, very unacceptable and I cannot help but pity the man’s poor wife who is not just the innocent victim but also clueless about what her husband is doing under her nose. Today, I would like to touch on the issue of how some divorced and, sometimes, newly separated women turn to becoming gold digger mistresses. Every and now then, I hear of ‘horror’ stories from my friends and loved ones about how some desperate women just like K would do anything to keep their lavish lifestyles even if it would mean having an affair with rich and married men. Sadly, in many cases, most gold digger mistresses are a bunch of lazy slobs (sorry to say this but it is the truth), who either never work in a day’s life or wish to never work in a crummy job again, be it at the desk or waiting tables, always use their looks and charm to help them gain a rich, married potential who is seen as an instant guarantee to a wealthy, lavish lifestyle even if it would mean settling for being a mistress. To ladies considering out there, we all know that physical beauty don’t last forever and won’t get you to anyway, doesn’t matter if you are single, married or divorced. Some of you may disagree all you like but I believe having a bit of a brain and some transferable skills are handy enough to get you by in life, good or bad times, rather than do the lowliest role on the planet called the gold digging mistress.
As a blogger, I am not here to judge these women whatsoever but what they are doing is not just destructive to their kids and the married men’s families but also to themselves. Is becoming a gold digger mistress really worth it once one is caught out followed by the pain and drama? I don’t think so! Women like K do not think of the consequences of their actions no thanks to their desparate, materialistic minds when they think about staying in the A-list life which they did not work and gain for themselves to gain through merit. Then again, it makes me wonder what would K’s kids say if they find out sooner or later the fact that their mother is a gold digger mistress.
What says you about the issue of desperate divorcees becoming gold digger mistresses? Do you happen to have heard or known one in your town?
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interesting post. There are many people out there like K, but calling her a ‘Gold Digger’ is a better word for what she’s really doing, getting paid for sex. It’s an old profession. She’s not necessarily the ‘bad person’ here. The husband is, but we don’t know his story, which doesn’t make his actions right.
Thanks for your input. In a way she is not a bad person but what she is doing now has already made her the villian really. It is so easy to judge her now ex-husband but then again, who knows.
I do know of such a gold digger, the people who really suffer in that situation are the grown kids watching their mom whore around for the next rich guy. (to clarify my mother is a saint, I am quoting a friend about her mother)
Looks like you have come to the right place to say it out, kittyb22. Yes, you are right that the grown kids are the ones who bear the brunt of their mother being the gold digger mistress doing the whole “try before you buy” method with those married but rich men. Thanks for your comment.
hmmmm….interesting post.
I also read that article about the botox with the little girl. That is stupid. I don’t like that mother.
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I wouldn’t classify her as a gold-digger, merely someone that still tries to get a lifestyle she feels entitled to and time runs out quickly for her. Bad character never works in a marriage.
Thank you, diginoodles. You are right with the part that she definitely trying to get into a lifestyle she feels she is entitled to since she was last married to her ex-husband. However, I have to say that what she is doing classes her as a gold digger.
Don’t forget the man who is willing to take her on as mistress – it takes 2 to clap. A ‘gold digger’ who is trying to bag a rich dirtbag & he is the one who never thinks of the wife (the woman he married in the 1st place) and the poor children suffer (for both sides). Either way, this kind of thing destroys a lot of people, not just one. Just because of one selfish soul who does this to get money so that she can continue her so-called luxurious lifestyle instead of getting a decent job.
Well said, PepperMint. Yes, it does take 2 to clap and tango for something like this to happen. I also agree that woman is very selfish and you are right that she should get a decent job instead of doing something as selfish as this! What a pity she chooses to toss her brain into a rubbish bin over her ‘looks’, her selfish heart and her body.
I don’t know of any divorcees who have turned into gold digging mistresses, but I do know of a gold digging mistress! My husband’s mistress, for one. My husband had an affair several years ago with a crazy woman who got pregnant on purpose and bore his child. She obviously saw this as a cash-in opportunity since my husband earns a good income, and she does not. She sees this child as her cash ticket to financial ease, and does so at the expense of my family and children. Her lavish demands for money, her irrational justification for over-the-top expenses and her claims that my husband should have to pay 100% of her costs for things that she feels she should have full decision making on selecting. It makes me sick. How can she sleep at night knowing that she slept with a married man, compromised the family of three small innocent children, and continues to harass us for money to support her, all the while behaving belligerently? Some people have no scruples and it is because of people like this that I really hope that karma exists. If so, she will certainly have her day.